Choose Peace Over Approval

Borrys Hasian
2 min readJan 22, 2025

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Man with anxiety by Borrys Hasian

How often do we measure our worth through the eyes of others? Whether it’s a friend’s comment, a social media like, or a stranger’s passing judgment, we’ve all felt the pull to seek approval. But here’s the question we rarely ask: What are we giving up?

When we chase society’s approval, we often sideline our own peace and happiness. We compromise who we are, dilute our true desires, and wear masks to fit into molds we never chose. And for what? For a brief moment of approval from people who may not even matter in the end?

True peace doesn’t come from external applause. It comes from within — from living authentically, making choices that align with your values, and prioritizing what genuinely makes you happy. The world will always have opinions, but your inner peace shouldn’t be up for debate.

The world will always have opinions, but your inner peace shouldn’t be up for debate.

This doesn’t mean we should ignore others entirely. Feedback and connections matter, but they shouldn’t define us. The opinions of people who don’t walk in your shoes should never carry more weight than your own sense of fulfillment.

So, let’s take a moment to reflect. Are your decisions driven by what feels right to you, or by what you think others expect? Are you living for your peace and happiness, or for the approval of people who might not even notice?

The truth is, seeking approval from others will never replace self-acceptance. Peace begins when you stop looking for it in others and find it within yourself. Happiness isn’t a prize — it’s a daily choice. Choose yourself, and you’ll build a life that truly matters.

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Borrys Hasian
Borrys Hasian

Written by Borrys Hasian

I’m a Product Designer and a simplicity advocate based in Abu Dhabi. I have led Design for successful and award-winning products used by millions of people.

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